what constitutes bad sex for ppl with a penis?

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2. Lack of enthusiasm. If I feel like the main thought in her head is “are we done yet”, that pretty much ruins it.

   This can be true even if I end up getting off, yes. At that point the physical pleasure is there, sure.. but it feels more like masturbating than sex, mentally.

3. If she wants it over with, or she’s a pillow princess. Believe it or not being too loud is a MAJOR turn off for me if it’s constant.

4. I had sex with a trans guy once and I’d consider it ‘bad sex’. His vagina was not tight at all and had no texture. It was basically just a bj without the suction, and I don’t find bjs pleasurable at all, ever. It feels like you’re just dipping your dick into warm water and lightly stroking it. Personally for sex to be pleasurable for me, there needs to be constant stimulation to the head of my penis, and that means tight and textured, not loose and super wet

5. If it were just about the vagina or cumming we would just fuck toys. It’s so confusing to me when women don’t know sex can be bad. You’re not an object, we want a sensual, communicative, enthusiastic human being.

   Pull me into you, rub my body, lick my nipples and my balls, talk to me, grab my dick and put it in, reach under and massage my balls in doggie, wrap your legs around me, tell me you want my cum, tell me where to cum, tell me when to cum, play with my ass, swallow my cum, I mean…the list goes. Just and active participant in pleasure giving.

6. Bad sex has nothing to do with what the penis feels , it is about his mental state. Look at it this way – just like masturbation, [proper stimulation of the penis](https://366moves.wordpress.com/2022/09/30/penis-massage/) will make him cum even if the sex was boring.

   While having sex many men like to have sex with [women who actively participate](https://366moves.wordpress.com/2022/09/30/starfish/). Actively participating just means meeting his thrusts with your own thrusts, grinding your hips, and flexing your PC muscles (the muscles that stretch from your pubic bone to the tail bone. These are all things you can do from whatever position you’re currently in.

   You can also use your hands to squeeze your man’s arms and pull his body closer to yours, or use your lips to explore more of his body—all these moves will let him know you’re loving the action.

   OR *God forgive me for what I am about to say*;

   Say you want to manipulate your man for some favor after sex. If you are a pro you will actively participate like I said above, when he is about to cum you moan, fake an orgasm, and pee (squirt) on him. While you are on it, if you are in [any intimate position](https://366moves.wordpress.com/2022/09/30/affectionate/) when you feel the first jet of sperm grab him with your hands or legs and lock him in place.

   Once it’s all said and done just lie there panting. When you start off a conversation ask him what just happened? While you are all wiped clean and cuddling steer the conversation to the said “favor” you wanted.

   Granted you will get it alright. If anything [you are a Goddess of sex](https://366moves.wordpress.com/2022/09/30/goddess/) to him and he sure will worship you.

   What gave?

   The sex was mind blowing for him even if the entire encounter was nothing but a bore chore to you. It was how he read your body being into it that counted as great, not the actual fucking.

   Now, do you have to fake it? No! the example above was given to make a point, please **NEVER** use my sex advice to manipulate anyone. It is just plain wrong and immoral. And that I am not.

7. Loose pussy that is overly wet

8. Some women need things in bed that take a lot of focus and physical effort, and that take away from our physical pleasure. Which is 100% fine – great, even – as long as she is gracious about it and as long as she is willing to return the favor. But there are some who ask a lot and offer little, with an attitude like “You’re just lucky to be here.” That’s *bad* sex and most of us quit putting up with it in our early 20’s.

9. Bad sex feels like a chore. You do it anyway but you want to be done with it already.

10. Enthusiasm is key and with real good loving sex you become one person.

11. I agree. When your significant other’s attitude is “all right get it over with”. That is bad sex. Makes you feel like a jerk and undatisfied as well.