I always knew women didn’t really enjoy penetration that much, but I came across [this post](https://www.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/yoi3p2/my_gf_can_cum_just_using_a_vibrator/) recently and after reading some of the comments, it seems like PIV sex does nothing at all for women unless they’re using a vibrator/clit sucker/etc. Is this the truth?
I think I already know what the answer is but I’d like to see what people have to say.
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What?! Penetration feels amazing!!
It’s true that a lot of women can’t orgasm from penetration alone but that doesn’t mean it doesn’t feel great.
If this is true then my wife (and many other women I’ve been with) must be a freak of nature.
Absolutely my wife enjoys PIV along with all sorts of toys for penetration.
it does! especially if im super horny but penetration can also stimulate the clit so win/win
Women didn’t really enjoy penetration. No, wrong; also we’re not all the same.
Can’t enjoy without other stimulation. Also wrong.
Even with issues I have, not common issues, I enjoy being penetrated vaginally.
It doesn’t bring me to climax but it sure as he’ll gets me close.
I prefer piv than any ither stimulation
It’s not a great idea to jump to conclusions like this from a single Reddit post, but if there is one thing that is never stressed enough on this forum, it’s – **everyone is different**.
Of course many women feel pleasure or stimulation from PIV. That is discussed on here all the time as well. You just chose to focus on a post that reinforced something you already believed.
>I always knew women didn’t really enjoy penetration that much
False.
Some women don’t enjoy penetration that much. During a time where women are encouraged to advocate for their pleasure, they are louder.
Also – people like to conflate “not orgasming from PiV” with “feeling nothing from PiV”.
I love PiV. It gets me totally mindless drowning in pleasure, but I don’t get an orgasm from it.
But it does not minimize the immense pleasure I get from it, because:
1. If the point where you orgasm is the only point you experience pleasure, that is sad.
2. An orgasm lasts maybe half a minute. But the constant pleasure of PiV lasts much longer.
Most women enjoy penetration. Most women cannot orgasm from penetration.
Yes, via the g-spot and fornix. Orgasming from it alone can be difficult but that doesn’t necessarily mean it feels like nothing
My wife can’t orgasm through PIV no matter how long or how hard we tried, she gets close the longer I pound her, but it takes oral afterwards for her to cum. She gets a lot of arousal through penetration
For me it can, but doesn’t always. Without some kind of clit stimulation (not necessarily a vibrator, it could be a hand or even just the pressure of my partner’s body), penetration is usually only a flicker of sensation here and there. It’s like clit stimulation “activates” my vagina and even a little bit of pressure there makes the penetration itself become much more stimulating. I think sometimes people think that means that it’s really just clit stimulation that I like, but that’s not true, it’s the combination of both that really does the trick. Even when I masturbate, I use a dildo along with my hand/vibrator, and I prefer to have a finger or two inside of me during oral.
I honestly think you’re mixing up people’s comments from other posts and taking them more out of context. You’re also thinking in very limited terms of what brings enjoyment (physical vs mental and emotional for example).
Just having P in a V isn’t all that thrilling in my opinion. But the movement can be felt and does stimulate a response, even if it doesn’t lead to an orgasm for all women. Of course there is a sensation that can be felt, vaginas aren’t numb, especially not when something is moving inside them.
Furthermore, it can also bring mental pleasure which translates to a physical reaction. Knowing your partner is enjoying your body, knowing what the two of you are doing together can be very enjoyable for some people and heighten the pleasure you’re feeling.
The issue is if people rely solely on PIV, their partner can feel it, but it might not be enough for their ultimate pleasure. Sex shouldn’t just be PIV (in my opinion) but that doesn’t mean PIV is useless. It just does different things for the different people involved.
It’s a feeling of fullness. And the hormones released are nice and make you feel good emotionally. Also, I am the type that gets off on my man getting off so knowing PIV gives him pleasure makes it pleasurable for me.
Piv is the best. There’s the mental spent, which you seen to discuss regularly in your answers, but also a physical one. The penis that his that very spot? It’s the best.
This is one of those things that’s person dependent. I love PIV. I come like crazy over and over again from a good dicking. But that’s me. Not any other woman.
I think you’ve convinced yourself of bullshit o.p.
I would say the vast majority of females definitely do enjoy vaginal sex. If they didn’t, they probably wouldn’t be doing it.
Obviously there are women who don’t, but they are the minority in a huge population of females.
Google “what does sex feel like for a woman”, many many testimonies of women who love having cock inside them.
My question is why are you trying to convince yourself of a negative view of sex?
It’s not that it does nothing, it’s just not going to get me off. It feels like a nice massage, and that’s it.
If that’s the case, there must be something wrong with my fiance because she gets off on PiV. Maybe it’s just because I’m fat and mashing against her clit the whole time, but she loves it.
In fact, she likes it so much she treats everything else like foreplay and convincing her that I’d like to do more than just PiV cross the finish line is proving difficult for me.
Depends on the woman, but generally yes. It’s just not nearly as pleasurable, orgasmic or sensitive as the clitoris for most women.
The clit is the anatomical equivalent of the dick. Think about how you’d feel if your partner believed touching your dick in any way was an optional “extra” and not the main point of sex. That’s what sex is like for many women, sadly.
I enjoy penetration a lot when I’m properly turned on, but the problem is, a lot of guys don’t take the time to turn women on by doing the things that actually turn us on (mostly clit stimulation).
PIV often feels absolutely amazing
I enjoy PIV and can usually orgasm from it alone, even without clit stimulation.
My wife craves penetration. She rarely has an orgasm without some form of penetration. She can have very intense orgasms from PIV alone.
You have some serious misconceptions regarding women and sex. Never assume, even if 99.999% of women like X, the one you are with is the only one that matters and the 99.999% are irrelevant.
PIV feels amazing. I don’t orgasm from it, but it’s still great. There are plenty of nerves in the vagina, so YES we feel it, and YES it’s pleasurable. Not to mention the legs of the clitoris are literally right on the other side. It’s like how anal play is often amazing for men, although they don’t necessarily cum from it and may need to finish with penis stimulation. And not all men find prostate play pleasurable. That’s the closest analogy I can come up with.
Think of it this way: guys like getting their balls licked and suck on. It feels amazing. But your probably not gonna come from just that. You need to have your dick stroked in order to cum
My guy, how old are you? Just curious.