There’s this girl in my school. We met about three months ago. I fell and then showed obvious signs I liked her 2 months ago. She got the gesture and said “i don’t want you to get the wrong idea but i think of you as a friend and i like someone else at the moment”. Moved on. Lost feelings slowly. Now all of a sudden she wants to hang out with me. She invited me to do community service once, and then we ate and talked. Then she invited me again. And then sends me stuff (pictures that remind her of me) every now and then. Wtf do I do? Do I just stop talking to her and let her come to me or do I try to ask her out again?
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Don’t do it. Just be friends. She’s looking for a rebound or validation after whoever she was seeing didn’t work out. Don’t get your heart broken again.
Sometimes girls needs time to get feelings, could be she is now attracted to you. But could also mean she only likes you as a friend. Just tell her how you feel and who knows, maybe you guys will be together. If she said no, then move on.