Things were going well! She told me she liked me. I would see her on campus and we would sit and talk for hours. After nights of drinking with our friends things would usually get a bit more flirty and physical. So I finally asked her on a date and she didn’t seem that into me after we got back to the house after dinner and asked me to bring her back home earlier than I expected because she said she was tired. And while she was still cracking jokes with me on the ride back she seemed to be in a hurry to leave.
She left me on delivered for the whole day and then never responded when she opened the text. Which isn’t unlike her, but also it was definitely a text that could have warranted a response. I just saw her on tinder, which I’m not saying she can’t be on since obviously I still have one too, but I know she hates tinder and we didn’t even match.
I know I’m going to have to see her when I hang out with friends and I still have a massive crush on her. I don’t know what to do.
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Sounds like maybe she just didn’t feel a romantic vibe and she doesn’t want to lead you on further.
I would not try to contact her anymore. I would suggest waiting until you see each other when u hang out with friends. Then find a good time to say like hey can we talk for a sec or something like that. Then, I would say something like I get the hint that you may not be into me anymore but at the same time I don’t want to just assume so is there something I did? or something that went wrong on our date? It’s cool, you won’t hurt my feelings it’s just a bummer that we seemed like at least friends and then nothing.
If she responds in a rude way or in a dodgy way then she wasn’t worth your time. Good luck! 🍀
Best thing to do would just be overall social with everyone at this thing & unaffected, if you can. Asking her upfront about it won’t end well.
Watch your drinking if there’s gonna be alcohol there (rereading I actually don’t know if you’re talking about a function, or just hanging out in general)