I used to be obsessed with finding someone for this very reason, and I am not anymore thankfully, I still want it/seek it but just beacuse I want to, and if I don’t get it, the feeling just kinda sucks but it pretty much won’t bother me, upon taking the monkey off my back I discovered that being single is often fun. Often times I will even tell myself like “yes but you already succeeded, you never have to anymore”.
However, I didn’t move on from the mindset in title, especially when among peers (I am 22).