Edit: Not very long distance, about <3 hours by train/drive. It’s the same country but different cities

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  2. Why would you want to change her mind? Having doubts at the beginning of your relationship isn’t really a good sign.

  4. I had to move away for reasons and my new girlfriend of a few months wanted to date long distance. I ended it. Long distance is a huge waste of time.

  7. there are some possibilities about it .

    first she actually changes her mind and starting to believe can figure it out .

    second she likes your interest and don’t want to lose it .

    If you both have no doubts about trust you can make a shoot. Also keep in mind there are more big problems than the trust in long distance relationship imo.

  8. I said the following magic words: “tape, bridge, river, column, Styrofoam, ribbit, ribbit, shaboom!” and then she magically changed her mind and bought some plane tickets. 10/10 would recommend.

  9. LDR rarely works. I cut my LDR off and she ended up surprise visiting me and proposed. It’ll be 3 years married this January. She lives with me.

  10. I did change my mind, but it was too late and she already moved. It was after she was gone, immediately found someone else and we stopped talking, that I started really missing her. She was the first girl in years that had genuine interest in me and wasn’t afraid to proceed with things. I dunno if I fucked up that I rejected the ldr and only kept it casual for two months before she moved. I was afraid of ldr because it would take like 5 years at least to actually live together and I wanted a normal relationship. I didn’t fully trust her, because she was 6y younger, reckless and irresponsible, especially when drunk, so my anxiety would be on high all the time. But now, when I’m alone and stuck in this stupid dating world, I’m thinking I made a huge mistake and should have given it a try.

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