My gf and I have been together for about 2.5 years and the last 2-3 weeks she says she isn’t horny at all. I feel bad because I have a pretty high libido I feel I’m getting sexualising frustrated. I miss the intimacy with her so I brought it up and she said she doesn’t know what’s going on.
I initiated sex and she was reciprocal and we had sex. It wasn’t that good and I could tell something was off. After I finished we cuddled for a while and she said that she couldn’t feel anything. Like no stimulation. She has had this issue before in the past but only 1 or 2 times thst she said in the 2.5 years together.
I’m finding myself sexually frustrated and I feel unattractive and inept. I’m unsure on what to do and it’s messing with both of our mental health as she feels she’s to blame for me feeling unattractive.
Has anyone else experienced something similar. What do we do?
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It’s been way less than a month,it could be anything. Stress, boredom, some weird hormones,… Give it time, all her about her day, go on a date,…