We had a really good time, I’ve seen him twice and we both agreed it was very casual. I dont feel emotionally attached, I was very much up for anything and I know he’s very laid back and free spirited so doesn’t make many plans too far ahead so I didn’t mind making a bit of effort to make it happen. Since the second time we have had small talk and I tried to see him last weekend but he was busy (fair enough). But he doesn’t seem that keen to try and find another date. Am I right in assuming it’s done? I know he’s probably sleeping with other people which is fine but I’m not going to reach out anymore. It doesn’t turn me on if the guy isn’t on it.
Could this be a ‘he got what he wanted and got bored’ type of situation?
Ps. I’m new to casual dating if that wasn’t clear lol
Edit: please don’t inbox me thinking I’m going to sleep with you next, I know this happens on this sub but it’s not going to happen
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Sounds like it’s over then. If you’re not turned on if he’s not hitting you up, and he’s not hitting you up. Well sounds like you both are over it. Time to move on.
It sounds like he got what he wanted.
Yeah its just the game, its okay though I’m sure you’ll find more people, wouldn’t put too much thought into it
Yeah he probably got what he wanted. Not saying he won’t initiate weeks or months from now. I’d just stop reaching out and if you’re still down when he does reach out, then go for it. But have no expectations