Hey there really need advice on this one.
I am M21 and my gf F19. We’ve always had problems regarding any other females doesn’t matter friends, school mates or etc. All my life I’ve been in classes with more girls than boys generally I’ve always been more around females. We have been in a relationship for like 2 years now and still one of the biggest problems we have is that she doesn’t believe me about anything regarding females. In her opinion I like every single girl I’ve been friends with or that I’ve wanted to fuck her. And this cannot be further than the truth. Yes I have exes and etc but I haven’t liked any of the girls she thinks I like. I’ve stopped any communication I had with the females she wasn’t okay with and I haven’t communicated with another female friend for probably 6 months.
The most recent problem is that she somehow found out that I’m in a telegram group that’s for nudes and etc specifically for our country.(she is not okay with me watching porn and stuff like that). She hasn’t told me yet but I know she is in the group and that she knows I’m in the group aswell because she sent ig photos of said girls in the group. And that’s how I know it is her. And let me clear some things up I’m not in the group to watch other females or mastrubate to other females or look for my female friends and etc. I am not really interested in this because we have like tons of videos together I have tons of nudes of her so I don’t really need to watch other females and its like im not even interested in them. I don’t even get aroused. The reason I’m in this group is because I don’t want anyone sending photos of my gf in there because it already happened with my ex so I’m afraid of it happening again.
I know how it sounds but it is the truth. We have an amazing sex life and I haven’t really been interested in porn and etc. Yes I watch some stuff here but its mainly for ideas to do with her.
How do I approach the whole situation without ruining our relationship?
I really wanna be straightforward with her and tell her but I know she’s not going to believe me. I have really strong feelings towards her and I don’t wanna ruin it. So I need you advice reddit!
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If you can explain what you said here to her it will be a start
You could try to get her into the same boat. Ever showed the stuff to her? Maybe there is something you both can enjoy.
Hold up, she has sent photos of herself in a group that you think she will be uncomfortable that you are in. Am I understanding this correctly?