I’m a loner but I can be very extroverted. I enjoy conversations with people and when it comes to to first time conversations with strangers the conversations can go really well at times( which is why I value great conversations with people that I’ll never see again because the convos feel so genuine) but most of the time when it’s people that I know we usually just fall out over interactions.
Idk if it’s me or it’s just my lack of interact. I just don’t know what to say I usually ask questions but I just run out of things to ask and I don’t really live an interesting life.
Most of days are spent doing school work, I do enjoy exercising(going for a run) when I get the chance, I love reading manga and watching films but besides that I don’t do anything else which is why I let them talk most of the time. And it’s quiet when I don’t have anything else to say.
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Say you’ve run out of things to say. Say how you feel about that. Say what you make it mean. Listen. Deeply.
Alright, all clear.
Everything is already perfectly how it is. No need to narrate.
There is another kind of talking different than observing and sharing information : declarations of what you will create. Discuss what dreams are, listen for the others dreams. Promise to show up for the ones that light you up – together.
Create awesome from the space of your powerful silence.
I have the same problem. I am 36, but when I was 16-25ish, I remember online talking used to be a lot easier. People would just talk back and forth, and both people seemed to have endless things to say to each other. On weekends it was normal to talk all day long, into the night. This lasted years and years, never dried up, ever.
Not saying it should be like that, but times have definitely changed 🙁