I’ve(f28) been talking to a man(35) since august. We have met each other maybe 10 times. We can go out and do “public” things. I’ve been to his house and he’s been to mine. We have a lot of fun together and the sex is amazing.
He told me he does move very slow with relationships and now I’m starting to think maybe he sees me as a fwb.
We don’t talk/text daily and sometimes he can take a day or two to answer. He has a lot of work and a career in sport as well.
I’m starting to like him and I know I need to talk to him about this.
Just feeling a bit confused and need some advice on what you guys think!
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How did you meet him?
He does sound like he only sees you as a fwb. I get that people are busy, but nobody is that busy where they take days to reply, especially when then are into someone. The fact that sex is amazing means nothing.
I think you should talk to him and see if he has any intentions to turn this into a relationship. Three months is more than enough to figure out if you want something serious with someone or not. But be prepared for the answer to suck.
Yeah.
No, I’m sorry. I think this is just a FWB type of situation. These always suck and I always advise people against them because someone is always hurt.
If this guy wanted you for anything other than sex, he would be texting you right away and giving you the time of day.
Honestly. The worst thing you can do is continue. You deserve better and you want more. He doesn’t. Do not contiue to reinforce his behavior by allowing him to have s*x with you.
Tell him RIP that pussy and move on to another person that wants ALL of you.
You’re worth more than what he’s giving to you. Don’t be afraid to ask for what you want and create a boundary. In my experience, if a guy is acting like this, he’s just not that into you which can be a hard pill to swallow. Focus on your self worth and take a stand for yourself. It might be best to let him know this and if he’s not willing to meet you where you want, you should cut it off.