I (F18) have been masturbating for many years now, but for the most part I just rub my clit. Well recently I got into a throuple relationship (F18 & M20) and I lost my virginity? I have had sex with my gf multiple times, consisting of fingering, eating out, scissoring, etc., and only been fingered by my bf few times. Other times during our sex(?) they will have PIV because they have already been together for a while. I don’t know if I just thought about it too much these past couple times, but I felt like I really was not wet at all, and I can’t remember if I was wet or not all the other times we have done anything, but I almost feel like I wasn’t, or at least not that much. I’m very new to doing sexual things with other people, and when I would masturbate with myself I never really thought about my wetness, especially because I didn’t do much inserting until the past year, and when I do I use spit. Although we do use spit sometimes it’s normally not enough, idk how to bring it up that I’m dry, like they probably notice right? I’m very shy and they both know that, how can I bring up the use of lube or smth?
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I suppose the short answer is to use lube. Long answer- could there be an attraction issue perhaps with one of the them?
There is also a thing known as performance anxiety which effects both men and women. Not a big deal and it happens a lot, especially if you have built something up in your thinking. The suggestion of using lube is a good one and it really does not require much of a discussion. If it were me a simple “Hey, can you lube that up?” while handing over a bottle of lube should suffice. You could also make the application of lube part of foreplay, cause that is fun too.