Women of Reddit, why is it after a women decides we should be “just friends” and I ask my new “friend” suggestions on approaching new potential date the “friendship” ceases to exist?

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  1. Why do you need women to answer this question? It should be obvious to you that they just want to get your attention without giving anything in return. They know if you start dating someone, you will start giving that attention to someone else. Those women are only your friend until you stop giving them what they want. That’s not a friend, that’s an asshole.

  2. They knew you wanted to bone them and they refused one way or another, and then they get pissed off when that goes away. You lose either way 😆 🤣

  4. Depends how you’re bringing it up. I can see it coming up in a weird way that implies you’re trying to stick it to her, just as an example.

  5. A lot of people distance themselves from friends of the opposite sex when they start dating, they could just see that as a sign they need to back off if you’re pursuing someone. I don’t typically like to give advice to my guy friends about approaching women because as a woman i’m well aware everything is situational. I’m not her, couldn’t tell you what she would do, don’t want to steer you wrong.

    So if after finding out I am not interested in dating him, a guy just starts asking me how to get with other women, whether I know them or not, that shit just feels weird. Its a weird thing to do dude.

    I wonder, how would you feel if your friends that are girls started asking you for advice on hot guys they wanted to approach?

    I think it is inappropriate in both cases.

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