title. by obsessed, i mean constantly think about them when in alone, talk about them to my friends a lot, and want to text them a lot. i dont wanna be too obsessed(??) to the point it might be considered “love bombing” or something but i also want to give them love and support but i just dont know how to propose manage it if it makes sense.
also were both 15f
tl;dr: i want to give my partner love and support but i dont want to be overbearing ans i dont know how not to be. i wanna know/learn how to manage friendships when in a relationship
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Make sure you have all your own interests, hobbies, and friends, that you continue to pursue and hang out with on your own. If you’re busy doing the things you love to do, it’ll be easier to not obsess over your partner.
If your partner has a problem with you continuing to do the things you love and hang out with your friends, you have a bad partner and you shouldn’t keep dating them.
Its normal to be a bit obsessive when you are in love 🙂 just make your your partner feels fine with your attention on them and you dont sacrifice your life for them I see no issue.