Some of the women I’ve been with get sad when I don’t cum from sex. What to do?

2 comments

1. Exactly that! Most partners are going to probably want to try and solve that problem for you so it’s a conversation you’ll probably have to have multiple times at length with partners.

   Is this a new development or something you’ve dealt with for a while?

2. My husband is this way.

   When we were first dating, I took it personally. Making a man cum had always been an accomplishment – a job well done.
   We had this conversation and he told me exactly what you said above.
   He would also say his focus was his partner and therefore wanted to hold out. I liked this idea and eventually realized I didn’t mind. The end was mine call, working to my benefit.

   As with anything, if they ask – be honest. I think the right person will get it.
   If they ask for other ways to get you there, perhaps share those with them.