I’m M23 and i’m into my first relationship with my friend, that i met some months ago. We’ve been taking it slow and it’s be lovely so far.
So, she was my first kiss and i explained to her that i’m inexperienced and she said it was fine, and that we could start doing things whenever i’m ready, cool!
Thing is, idk what to do now lol. I’ve been ready for a while and i want to start my sex life with her but where do i begin? Is there a bucket list or something? I mean i’m level below 0 so you kind of get the idea lmao. What do you all used to do when you were teenagers/young adults?
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I mean you basically get to skip all the angsty teen “how far can I go, is she OK with this” crap! So congrats on that!
If you guys just making out doesn’t automatically lead to more, perhaps take a more methodical approach. Work your way down the “bases” and then oral, then, eventually PIV.
This doesn’t all have to happen right away, in one sitting, although if it DOES, hey… that’s fine too.
If she’s had sexual experience, perhaps let her take the lead a little.
But at the end of the day, I’m sure you know what goes where. Try not to overthink it and try not to be a sex God the first time. Enjoy practising and getting better as you go.
And, of course, be safe 🙂
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Offer her a back massage, ask her to take off her shirt, start smooching your way through the bases