I have lots of friends. The right amount I’d say. I’ve never treated them bad and 99% of the time we’re always cracking jokes and gossiping together.
What I’ve noticed though is that they all seem submissive to me. They do everything I tell them to without any second thought. It is also very easy for me to persuade them. One time I convinced them to do something that could’ve been dangerous to them to see if they would and they were going to. I did tell them to stop very quickly though because I only wanted to test that theory out.
In arguments they never seem to talk back to me and they’re always very respectful during them too. It seems like they’re scared to say anything.
They also seem to just to whatever I do too. If I say I’m going somewhere they’ll just drop what they’re doing and follow. If I’m going to do something they immediately offer to help.
I don’t quite understand why they act like this. As I said I’ve never once been mean to them ( apart from littlr arguments, but everyone has them once in a while) and they’ve never seen me angry or be mean to anyone else.
Anyone know why or experienced the same? Thanks.
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It just sounds like to me you may have a genuine trusting bond with your friends. Its never really a bad thing to communicate stuff to your peers to get an understanding on how they’re feeling, ao ask them “hey, why is it that you act like you trust me so much” or something along those lines.
You seem like you maybe doing a good job, but its important that you establish communication and voice anything you may want/boundaries out of your friendships.
Maybe you’re rich? That would explain a lot. If you aren’t rich- maybe you have a very valuable mind to many and they trust your opinion. I have a couple people in my life whom I don’t question because they’ve never led me astray. You might be that person for them.
Is your name Neo?
Sounds like they trust you a lot or admire you