hi, so i have just started talking to this guy on tinder. i think he’s super hot, and he’s the perfect height for me, as i’m a tall woman. im just looking for casual FWB relationship rn, so im not like really worried about deep details of this guy, but i noticed that almost immediately he starts talking about his BBC (like, referring to himself talking about it). i’ve never heard a guy talk about *himself* having a “bbc” before. i guess what i’m trying to say is, is this common? are there black men who use the term when referring to themselves? also- does the use of this term imply that he will be wanting to do any type of race play stuff in the bedroom? im not really comfortable with that but i don’t want to assume that he would be into that and start talking about it and weird him out. i couldn’t find anything online about this so i hope i can find some answers.
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I think you’re PROBABLY reading to much in to it. My guess is he’s just “showing off” which, I mean.. it’s tinder, it probably works lol.
almost every black man i have ever been involved with has referred to his as bbc but it was mostly during sexting lol i think it’s common for some men to and i don’t think it has anything to do with race play
He could be bragging. You won’t know if he is being honest or not until you do the deed