What is the most gentle way to tell someone you don’t like their personality?

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1. Tell them straight. You’ll be doing the next girl of guy a favour. People like clarity, despite being hurt by it.

   The best thing a girl ever di for me was to tell me I live like a 15 year old.
   The second best was to tell me how much I hurt her by ghosting.

   I didn’t like the experience, but I learned from it. That more important than my or his/her feelings.

2. Do not do that. Just reject them with some vague “we’re not compatible”

3. And the easiest way is to treat him with some of his attitudes so that he notices it

4. Honest in my oppion.
   Tell them it’s just not lining up. You don’t match. Theres better personality for you and them.
   Just make sure you make it clear, you don’t match. I’m thinking about cutting off someone with this exact feeling.

5. Tell them you’re not feeling the chemistry.

6. We don’t mesh romantically. They won’t want a friendship.

7. “I feel like we’re on very different wavelengths”

8. “I don’t think we are a good match”