I’ve only ever dated men and been in the bottom/submissive role. My friend is an amazing person, and we care for one another a lot. She’s attractive in every way that matters to me, but I’ve never had to be the initiator. We’re both very anxious people, and I don’t have a social script to work off of for this. How do I sleep with a woman? What is generally expected of me as the guy in a relationship? I’m sorry if this sounds dense and stupid, but I’m really struggling to figure it out
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OK, I don’t ever respond when there are questions about trans issues because really I just don’t get it. But, whatever I’ll give it a try here. What do you mean by you thought you were gay? Thought you were only attracted to men? So you find this female friend attractive. OK, have you asked her out or made any move at all yet?
Dating women isn’t really all that different to dating men (so I’ve found) still need to communicate a lot.
And about sleeping together, you’ll work it out together. It’s fun to explore and it will come easy in the moment once things start happening