So I(23M) have been talking with this girl(23F), we still dating so it’s not a gf/bf thing yet.
I really like her, and I might think that this could end up to something serious.
But here’s my problem, I moved from my hometown(middle eastern country) couple of years ago because of the war(Yes I’ve seen war). And because of that I missed couple of years, I enrolled myself finally in Sommer 21 that means I am going to graduate in 2024-25.
Do I tell her this, now? I am afraid that if I tell her too late and if she still dumps me, I’m gonna get hurt a lot. So I thought I might tell her now.
Also: I do work in banking industry, so even though I am student. I won’t need/ask her help, and she knows I have a good job.
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If someone judges you for you having to put your life on hold because of a WAR they can go ahead and fling themselves into the sun.
Be honest, live your truth, and find people who embrace and support you and all that you have been through.
Say it like it’s not a big deal, “hey so I’m going to graduate in two years. I had to do x during the war.”