For a long time, I was chasing relationships the wrong way, becoming her friend, talking to her all day, putting them on a “pedastal” without showing my true intentions, afraid of rejection. But rejection is your best friend.
The last 3 times i dared to show my true interest, it has led to a potential relationship; I am in a relationship now. Let me explain how i came to this conclusion with three examples:
1.- Met girl on reddit. Hanged out in person a few weeks later, and the day after that I told her I had feelings for her and wanted to see where that goes. It ended up not working out but she was willing to give it a shot.
2.- Met girl on tinder and we met in person after talking for a few days. That day I told her i liked her a lot; she didn’t freak out or anything like that and the door was opened.
3.- We met in real life. Second time we went out I was upfront and said “not bad for a second date huh”. She got super nervous and thats where I knew. We are a couple now.
I offered this advice to a real life friend and he’s gonna try to be upfront. My gf said she really liked that.
Go ahead guys!!
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Please tell more guys!