Dirty flirty weekend away with my SO. What should we get up to?

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1. Without knowing what you usually do, that’s an impossible question.

2. Scrabble.

3. Well we love to film ourselves

4. Strip poker is fun

5. Meet up with another couple and play

6. Touching and buildup is a great way to set the tone, and also maintain that sexual communication over the course of a dirty getaway.

   Stopped at a red light with no one around? Do a little flashing or petting. The car ride out can be a biiig tool to set the tone and highten arousal. Focus on road and safety, as well keeping the public out of the equation, obviously.

   Make a playlist ahead of time that also compliments the dirty flirty. Especially those songs that work you both up, just keep those big ones sprinkled around evenly.

   Create a spoken game where you take turns telling the other about times when they sent you over the top and how. Be specific and give details that stuck in your brain from your perspectives. Remember the answers too, those are tools that can help you later 😉

   Remember to take breaks from this as well. Humor goes a long way for riding these waves of buildup. Laughing is something that is super healthy and amazingly does not obliterate buildup.

   You can also use that time to communicate fantasies that just haven’t had the time or space to have an exchange about. Stay away from one’s that are a big leap from each partner’s wheelhouse. An example is a patner expressed how roleplaying as a 50’s housewife was something she had interest in. Extremely hot to me. So now we are on the lookout on our trip for ways we can play around with that. Maybe pull over soon and search for a boutique along the route that might have a dress or stockings or heels to play that out over the trip. This one comes with a little danger. You don’t want to reveal something that would potentially stun the norm. Keep it relative to things in your exchanges that are not a big stretch for the other.

7. We sometimes play a game called “who would you do?” where we point out attractive people we think our partner finds attractive and ask “would you do him/her?”. It’s innocent playful banter that gets us both turned on.

8. Back seat sex. It’s getting colder but sundresses and skirts make all sorts of quick fun dirty things possible.