Hi all,
So i have a girlfriend, and we have a relationship for around 9 months now and there is something on my mind right now and dont know what to do with it.
Whenever my girlfriend is sad or is not too happy i try to talk to her about the way she feels and try to understand her and try to help her with her situation, but when we switch the roles so that i feel sad and i try to talk to her about my problem, she always answers with simple senteces like “i get how you feel”. And i wish she would go more in depth and talk to me deeply about my problems, because i just need to talk to someone with my problems, but i cant do that with her.
I asked her once why she cant go in depth with the convo, and she said she just doesnt know *how.*
What do i do?
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I don’t know how to explain it, but I know what she means. I don’t know *how* either. It sounds like you’re just incompatible. Unless she chooses to make that effort, your needs are never going to be met, and the only thing that will come of it is resentment.