This has got to be one of the most frustrating things EVER. I(22f) am finally getting my IUD implant next month after years of waiting and wanting it. I was kinda scared at first but i did my research.
It absolutely blows though because the timing couldn’t be worse. I’m recently single and now celibate (until *seriously* dating) and the last guy i was messing around with we were decent at the whole sex thing. Even this guy i had dated about a year ago, he was the best I ever had and for *years* i wondered what it feels like to be finished *in*.
I would’ve done it with either of them if i couldn’t get pregnant. Now i’m single, soon-to-be on birth control and I STILL have to wait to know the feeling.
Sex already feels amazing so i couldn’t imagine actually getting to finish together instead of having to just end it abruptly every time. Someone please tell me it’s not that good so I can rest at night
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Honestly, it’s not going to be very different. I’m not sure what you’re expecting, but being “finished in” doesn’t feel like much (until you stand up and it leaks out of you).
It does feel a little better than sex with a condom, but it’s not a life-changing difference. As far as “finishing together,” that rarely happens regardless of what birth control you are or aren’t using. If you’ve been relying on pulling out (bad idea, btw), then sure, you won’t have that abrupt withdrawal every time, but the intercourse part will still pretty much end when he orgasms.
First off, your body will have to adjust to having an IUD. Usually it’s a month of spotting. I’ve heard the “trial period” to see if your body will accept it is 6 months, check with your doctor, I could be misremembering. So it’s actually great that you don’t have a partner right now.
Unless you have a serious cream pie fetish, you won’t automatically cum together. It is hot, but it’s not that easy (at least for most people). Also gives you time to find a guy that’ll prioritize your orgasm too!