There’s this guy I feel hard for. He’s 30 years old male and I’m 26 year old female. Everything in the relationship was fine. We were planning on meeting in person from offline. We were together for about 4 months. We had a few disagreements but then moved passed it.
Even talked about how he wanted to marry me someday. It was perfect then it went south. Everything I didn’t like he did. And wouldn’t stop yelling at me. It hurt. I would always get butterflies when I talked to him then it turned to anxiety.
I want to tell him how I feel. How this all makes me feel. Now they we broke it off. But whenever we talk now it somehow turned into an argument. Should I give up on that idea. This is maybe hard to believe but this is the first guy I feel this hard for.
I can’t talk to my family about it. Mainly because they love to judge me(then tell me everything I did wrong in life) constantly and I don’t want to deal with it.
Also I’m sorry if there are errors. I am dyslexic. I’m getting a little better with time.
tl;dr
I’m not really sure what to do in the situation. I want to talk to him but how or just should I talk to him or even just let it all go.
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He yells at you. He causes you anxiety. You are now broken up.
Keep it that way. You don’t need to talk to him or rekindle this.
Your partner should not yell at you! If you haven’t had a chance to have a calm conversation about communication expectations/ boundaries, then do so and tell him that yelling is not acceptable. But if you’ve done this then it sounds like you should leave.
An online relationship for 4 months and he yells at you. What do you think he’s going to be like in real life? Block and stay safe.