So last night when my (23f) boyfriend (28m) was going down on me while we were watching television, one of the female characters on the television show took off her bra and my boyfriend stopped and exclaimed “Tits!!” And then he kept going but still stared at her until the next scene. And obviously I didn’t say anything about it because that’s just how men’s brains are wired. But it really put things into perspective for me.
We’ve been together six months now, which means the honeymoon stage is over. My body isn’t shiny and new anymore, he’s seen it hundreds of times, he expects we’ll have sex when I come over, and we do the same position everytime pretty much. We’re falling into a routine and that worries me because contentment can quickly become boredom. How do you keep sex exciting and “new” after you’ve been together for a while and it’s not new anymore?
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I’ve been In a long term relationship for years, this is how we keep it passionate for us.
First we don’t just “have sex” we make love to keep it super intimate, we will try so many new positions, sometimes I’ll be on top, then next I’ll be on the side, on my back, try many positions during one session. Having foreplay is also sooo nice too!! Communication and laughing during sex is another thing we do aswell this keeps us smiling and happy and not serouse it keeps things fun, and the connection is amazing. Idk if your on birth control but if you go on birth control even just for 2 weeks to let him cum inside you to share something with each other it’s also really nice! It keeps things spicy 🌶️
Hope this helps!