How do you deal with anxiety when you want to talk to your crush?

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1. i get anxious too, but i try to focus on being their friend first and foremost to make sure my imagination isn’t clouding my judgement. i feel like then it’s easier to approach them and get a better sense of who they are and whether or not you actually like them.0

2. I just learned to take life by the balls and be as kind but direct in a flattering way. Usually self rehearsal helps.

3. Pls tell me bc I’m nearly 30 and I’m the worst at this 🙁 i think I talked So much he has to think I’m insane. I would like to really not repeat this in the future with others.

4. I remember I’ve been dating him for like 8 years, so it’s pretty safe to assume he likes me, too.

5. Hype yourself up. I used to have an issue with this in middle school but now idgaf. You need that idgaf attitude. Shoot your shot, talk your talk, and take small steps to put yourself out there.

   At the end of the day, it isn’t as big of a deal as you’re making it.

6. you have to choose whether your anxiety or talking to your crush is more important to you.