I 29f have been sexually active for almost a year now with 30m( every once or twice a month).We both don’t use any protection from the beginning. He does not use condom, and I am n not on BC ( never been in bc) and I don’t take plan B pills. My periods have always been on time , sometimes delay for 2 or three days. So this situation has made me wonder if I am just lucky or infertile or his pull out game is too strong??
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Maybe he is infertile.
About 10 years ago my gf and played that game for a couple years, we were committed, together for 2-3 years and it was kind of like maybe it just won’t happen, and now we have a 10 y/o so…
Well, we did the pill out method for a lot of it, but not always
You are extremely lucky…..so far. Around these parts we have a nickname for people that do it like this long term….its “parents”
It’s a risky game but maybe you have PCOS which makes getting pregnant much more difficult.
You’re probably just lucky. You can only get pregnant like 5-7 days out of your cycles, so if you only do it once or twice a month you’re likely to miss it.
And the pull out method if done right is very effective. I’ve been using that as my only form of birth control and have been lucky too
It always works until it doesn’t work 😏
You are lucky. For some person, it’s not easy to have a kind, for example Me and my wife. My daughter is 18th now.
A women is fertile only the 14th day of here period (28 days), for one or two days only.
If it’s only once or twice a month he’s been pulling out and it’s only been a year I would say that it’s very possible that you’ve just been lucky so far. If you’re not wanting kids I would start using some kind of protection.
You have about a 20% possibility of getting pregnant every month. So it’s all a game of chance
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During a woman’s cycle she can only conceive on the day she ovulates. But sperm can live for up to three days so roughly you can only get pregnant 5 days give or take on your cycle. Granted when ovulation happens is usually a guess on what day.. so could be missing those days or possibly someone is infertile
The hell is wrong with you? Do you want babies? Because that’s how babies are made.
Assuming a probability of 20% per month rounded down to maybe 10% there is a 120% chance of pregnancy. This is assuming less than ideal conditions and being extremely generous. See a doctor seriously
You’re lucky. Not a guarantee, but if your periods are regular, then that very likely means you are in fact ovulating each month.
Also, infertile is not sterile. So even if you were somehow infertile, that can all change without you knowing it. Being infertile doesn’t mean you can’t or won’t ever get pregnant.
Half of the couples that try to get pregnant aren’t able to within the first year. I’m assuming they’re probably doing it at least 3 times a week.
Once or twice a month is really not that much to get pregnant. Especially if you’re missing the right time in the birth cycle.
ETA: what I want to say is that it’s statistically very probable that you’re just lucky and not infertile. It is also very probably you’ll get a kid within the near future if you continue with this kind of birth control.
Can you picture yourself raising a child at some point with or without another parent?
Its not about infertility in you!!! There are lot more things involved to get pregnant!!