Cheaters / Adulterers of Reddit – What’s some things your SO could change to make your relationship happier? (No judgement)

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1. I’d like if she’d give me a blow job more often.

2. Be willing to have an open relationship. I’ve tried monogamy multiple times, but I just found it to be incompatible with my sexual wants and needs.

   I cheated on pretty much every boyfriend I had a monogamous relationship with, so the last few years I’ve switched to exclusively open relationships and it has been great. No matter my feelings towards someone, I simply get bored of always having sex with the same person every night (even if I find them irresistibly attractive) and I get quite turned on by new experiences and the adrenaline rush I get from them. I know this will make me sound like a terrible person, but there are very few things I find more hot than the feeling of hooking up with someone I’m not supposed to hook up with because one or both of us is already in a relationship. Even nowadays when I’m in an open relationship I seldom tell guys I hook up with that I’m in an open relationship and lull them into thinking I’m taken so that I get the same ‘thrill’.

3. In the past it was always that I didn’t feel wanted or pleased in the right way despite trying to make it clear what I liked and needed.