I’m 25. A guy. I get lots of matches. Recently, the girls who fancy me want “a long-term relationship at the right pace”, “aren’t into casual dating”, don’t reply when I ask them if they want to hangout at night.
The girls I really do like are getting 5-10+ dates a week and aren’t giving that up for me, understandingly.
The problem is, I want a fb and I don’t know how to be forward about it.
I don’t want to say, “I’m interested in fwb, let’s see where this goes”, but I have no inclination to message these girls. The problem is, later in the week, I want to “hangout” with someone and I don’t have that thing.
What do I say? How do I (say this and) get us on the same page? Assume I’m nice, have a personality, but I don’t have any excitement propagating me to message these girls.
**Money’s tight right now, so I don’t want to take these girls out.**
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You can only come out with it or you’re wasting everyone’s time. Put DTF in you’re profile. There’s no easier way to say it
Just have a shit personality but good looks, works for me
Unpopular opinion: just say you’re not into one night stands and looking to see where things go. Then go out on dates and see how it goes. You don’t have to announce in your profile exactly what you want, just keep it vague.
Perhaps find sites that are only for hooking up. Be safe.
Yeah you need to join those strictly sex personal sites.
Start dropping sexual innuendo in the middle of conversations with these girls you’re interested. For instance, if they’re complaining of back pain, say something like: ‘Oh? Why don’t you come over tonight and I’ll massage it for you’ with suggesting body language (e.g.: teasing voice, raised eye brow…etc. Girls that are interested in you will take you up on your offer and then u fuck their brains out
It sounds like you want attractive girls to flock to you and give you whatever you want at a moments notice without you having to invest anything in the situation, including communication. It’s unfair if you are holding back on your intentions because you don’t want to damage your own image… you’re never going to get what you want by pussyfooting around it, all you’re going to do is waste their time and yours and most likely hurt someone’s feelings. I suggest you be honest in your profile and tell them you’re looking for something casual and trying to see how things go. This includes the potential for a sexual relationship and possibly a romantic relationship, without seeming demanding