So I saw some other guys post so I wanted to follow up on that one. People saying you only see unattractive people unless you pay. When I was single and on tinder as a plus size women I saw nothing but fit men when I’m attracted to dad bods and beards it was really unsettling I wouldn’t say I’m that attractive but more like average I think it’s really crappy to make comments about plus size people being unattractive like lots of plus size people work out just me personally fit men use plus size women a lot just curious how many people think dating apps only show unattractive people because that definitely wasn’t the case for me any comments are appreciated
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Bruh
I’ll admit I paid for hinge and met my out of my league boyfriend but even before that, guys who were fit would pop up. I just wouldn’t say shit bc not my usual type
I will say this, however it comes off. On Bumble, the only site I am using, I get likes that are not my type at all. Mostly age, I am 39 and they are like 50-55+. But I have, for fun, just taken off all filters and literally only see fairly to very attractive women in the 24-36 range. I honestly get mostly traditionally attractive fit white women.
I never get offended about a like and I do match with my type when I actually see them enough to use the app but I am the one who creates the like. It is very surprising that I never see the people who like me in my feed, until I get a new like, so if they are having the same experience as I, I see how this happens.