How frequent is oral in your relationship

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1. Very rare on my end as well. Some women like it, some don’t.

2. In my relationship, every time we have sex there’s oral. I (f) pretty much always receive it, and I’ll also give it to my partner (m) depending on how fast things are moving. Sometimes he prefers to skip receiving and move on to other activities but I’m always willing to reciprocate.

3. Once or twice a week.

4. Every single time we have sex. I get it. If he asks for it, he gets it.

   Usually he just wants to be in me lol

5. Every time we have sex.

6. Sometimes a couple of times a weeks but sometimes also not for a few weeks.

7. We have sex almost every night and oral on him is almost always involved (but not to completion). I only let him go down on me if Ive showered recently because of my own preferences. Completion for him happens several times a month when we have multiple sessions a day or the first few days of my period.

8. In every relationship I’ve had, oral has been frequent and important. I have a very *very* strong oral fixation, and can almost orgasm just from *giving* oral. I have once given a 2+hr blowjob, sucking through 4 orgasms and the refractory periods. So giving oral is important to me, sometimes moreso than actual intercourse.

   As for receiving oral, I’m kinda meh. I don’t get much pleasure from it usually, and my partners jaws always get sore pretty quickly due to my girth. So while I love giving oral, I don’t care much about receiving, though I definitely don’t mind people trying.

9. It’s as much a part of our sex life as vaginal sex.

   My husband is more into receiving than I am so he gets more oral but he goes down frequently and he wants to give more often than I want to receive.

10. every time, so at least every other day, for both of us.

11. It’s everytime. I give it to her, and since I’d rather orgasm inside her I don’t have her give it to me very often, maybe a few times a year.

12. Almost every time. I’d say 99%. Giving and receiving.

13. Here’s a helpful hint. Talk to your partner and ask for it. Then be prepared to discuss why or why not.

14. I give BJs to u/LostAd6009 more often than I’ve received oral, but to be fair…I started off with receiving oral as one of my limits…and I also had my period. So in the month or so we’ve been together, oral was off limits for me for like 2 of those weeks.

    I LOVE giving BJs and I know he loves eating me. It’s a big thing for both of us.

15. Well when we started to date, it sounded from her that she likes giving it. I’ve gotten 5 bjs. I’ve ate her probably 300 times by now, but I’v stopped going down on her because it doesn’t give me anything anymore.

16. a couple times a week

17. If I’m instigating, every time. A blowjob is how I assure I get dicked down.

18. Every time I have sex, oral is involved

19. It’s a sex act that comes standard with any sexual encounter of sufficient length and even many quickies. Only a very few sexual encounters have taken place outside or in another venue where it just was not an option or where we were so pressed for time in the quickie that we decided to completely forgo oral.

    Granted, more often than not, blowjobs for me are perfunctory and more about getting me either harder or more lubed up so that penetration is easier when it comes time for either PIV or anal sex. Whereas in the other direction, my lovers have always been consistently satisfied with how I’ve eaten their pussies.

20. Almost every time. We both love giving and receiving. Watching her perform it on me is part of the appeal. And we both typically will finish for oral. Btw 69 is almost never involved.