My current bf is of average size but it hurts when he penetrates me. I have no problem getting wet or I’m not anxious or anything . He says he likes the feeling but it hurts me because i feel like my skin is stretching out. Did anyone else go through something similar? What can I do to make sex easier for me? Also he is my first but i feel like he is exhibiting signs of sexual deviancy like f me in my sleep, getting extremely rough.
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Perhaps add some lube? On that last part, is that something he has done to you or wants to do?
To answer your question lube is your friend, regardless of “being wet enough naturally”, it can enhance your sex and is especially helpful.
But listen – having kinks and fetishes does NOT equal consent.
I’m a girl who likes BDSM+rough sex+submission+rape role play. This is always done with consent and is discussed and agreed upon with a partner.
How old are you, may I ask?