Do women think its weird if guy doesn’t really use Instagram?

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1. You have followers? JK don’t worry about it. Not everybody uses IG. The only people that would care are immature and not worth caring about.

2. If you start off with trying to defend yourself for no reason then it instantly make you seem suspicious of something. If she asks about why there’s not much then sure, explain that you barely use it.

   Or better yet, just ask for her number so you can text/call her.

3. As someone who hates social media I don’t think it’s weird. I don’t have any of that stuff. Reddit is as far as I go.

4. You don’t justify yourself, it makes you look insecure. And insecurity is unattractive.

   With girls everything you do must be the cool thing, if you don’t use instagram that’s the cool thing, regardless of what everyone, including her, says.

   You need to hold the frame that your way of looking at life is the cool, normal and acceptable way of looking at life.

   So it’s not weird( because you should act like it’s not weird, and to do that you just not justify yourself because if you justify yourself by saying “that’s why i have no post or too many followers” then you are accepting the frame that you are not cool, that your situation is weird, and thus fail.

   If she asks: “Why don’t you have posts?”

   You just joke: “Cuz i’m a government secret agent and need to keep a low profile for my next mission”

   Her: Haha But seriously why no post?

   You: Because

   She: Fair enough

   If she doesn’t ask about it, then don’t even talk about it.

5. boys with no social media = green flag