Book that made you better at sex?

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1. Same tbh. Though luckily the book just made me very grateful that my wife and I are as compatible as we are. It made me realize that I would be ill suited to huge numbers of women. I could not deal with the labor of managing responsive desire or anything like that.

   Great book.

2. I’m actually reading that one right now and it’s helping me better understand the context and social structure that women experience their sexual desire through,. It’s also helping me understand my own hang ups and responses.

   I can’t say how I can apply it in the bedroom yet since I doubt I’ll be finding a partner anytime soon, but I’m at least understanding why I’m not feeling ready, and hopefully when I do eventually I’ll be prepared to understand her perspective.

3. CUNT. It help me get over all of the shame and hang ups I was taught for having a vulva and a vagina. That made sex something glorious, powerful, and intimate, not something to be ashamed of. The Velvet Rage had a similar effect, but that was about expelling the shame of being male and attracted to men.