At first we were friends , then i felt like i was developing some feelings towards her . We actually used to spend a ton of time together but ever since she got a bf , the time spent together with us has reduced . she doesn’t feel like joining in our plans and shows up late to most of them .
Also I’m really confused about my feelings towards her , sometimes its sort of like a crush but other days its actually nothing . She’s a genuinely good friend and lets just say i dont know many other people like her right now . Cant help feel sad when i see both of them together .
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Any advice ?
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You cannot control how you feel for her , but refocus your attention from her. Feelings come and go
Now is the time you need to give this person space and become genuinely in your life focusing on your goals and hobbies, while interacting with other people on the side. Chase excellence, not people. Also read all the tips listed here: https://www.reddit.com/r/socialskills/comments/trlexh/how_to_avoid_being_needy_or_stop_being_needy/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf