I (19F) have no friends, I mean, I have some friends but they’re really not good for my mental health and I just keep them around because if I didn’t I literally would never leave the house. I don’t even feel good when I go out with them, if anything when I come home I have to take some hours to recharge my energy. I’ve thought about hanging out by myself but I live in a small town and people would call me crazy for doing that. I’ve tried making friends in college but it’s hard because everyone kind of already has their friend group and because I live really far away from my college so usually I just do online lessons. I’ve had people recommend me apps like Bumble but they kind of creep me out + I’m extremely introverted so going out with a stranger would just be extremely awkward. Does anyone have any tips? I wish I didn’t need to ask this but not having any friends is really starting to affect me.
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It seems like hanging out at your college more would be the best option for you. Realistically most people already have friend groups, but that doesn’t mean that they aren’t open to meet new people individually.