Me [24M] and my FWB[38F] regularly have sex. She used to be the dominant one but now she likes me being the dom.
She wants me to claim her and have rough sex with her that leaves marks on her body. She wants me to mark her body and make it mine. So I have two questions.
1. What can I do to leave marks on her body that won’t be too painful?
2. Also, how the hell do you give a hickey? I want to give her hickeys on her neck and breasts but I can’t seem to do it even though I suck hard.
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Every girl I have known who wanted to be marked wanted it mainly to experience the sensation for a couple days after. A well-spanked and reddened butt reminds her of our wild experience when she sits down. Make sure you talk to her about the marks she wants left behind – visible or no? painful while marking, or no? where on her body would she like to have the marks left? use your hands/body to mark her, or paddle? residual pain for a few days?
Hickeys on the neck have been easier than I have ever wanted them to be, having accidentally visibly marked a few women I was with. It will depend largely on her skin – some people bruise more easily than others. Nipples literally evolved as a part to be sucked on, so they will not mark easily or at all. Pay attention to the soft flesh under the breast or up the side near the armpits.
One possible thing to look into would be body markers, as in writing on her skin with a marker with whatever it is you want to say. That’s a way to do marking that’s reliable and non-painful.
If you’re looking for actual “injury” marking, try caning or a riding crop, or spanking very hard repeatedly. Those can leave some nice red marks quickly without breaking skin.
As for hickeys, different people bruise more easily than others, so it’s harder to give a hickey if someone doesn’t bruise easily. Sucking hard for a long time is generally effective, though for some I’ve actually used my teeth a bit to graze the skin, though you can only do this if she’s into a bit of biting pain, so ask beforehand.
My ex sucked gently with his teeth pressed flat against my neck. All I felt was pleasure and I could not believe I got a bruise!
My partner loves to see five little finger bruises on her arms and legs.
I just place my hand and press fingertips down hard. She doesn’t even notice until the next day when it gets her turned on again.