I’ve been travelling Europe for over 3 months now, not exactly gotten into many social situations, maybe talking to a roommate at some of the hostels I was at and so on. Makes me terrified, since even back at home I barely manage any social situations, because I don’t know people even though it’s the city I grew up in and now I’m traveling and seeing thousands of new faces everyday, but am not getting into many conversations, let alone speaking to different girls. I’m 30 and have had no experience of any kind with girls, so idk where and how people meet them. I’m not exactly socially inept once I get into a social situation, but I also don’t know where and how people are meeting girls whether it’s for relationships or FWBs and hookups. I basically want the last part answered.
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You can meet men and women in the same places and the same ways I guess.
Common areas in hostels seem like the best place because lots of people is willing to make friends or have a chat there.
Please take this advice from a woman who is a little older than you. Some of us are struggling just as much trying to figure out where to meet decent men.
You need to ask yourself WHAT you’re looking for. Relationship? Hookup? FWB?
Hookup or FWB you can meet anywhere, including online.
If you’re looking for a relationship, I suggest joining interest groups. What are you interested in? There are all kinds of groups and clubs you can join to meet someone. Running. Hiking. Book club. Bird watching. The list goes on.