Is it possible to stop a fetish?

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1. It is generally very hard to “control your kinks or fetishes”; they are just a part of “you”. The only thing you can try to do is recognize when some of these things (porn, etc) may be coming addictive and interfering with your sex life, and work to try and reduce your addiction. This is probably something that your therapist can help you with better.

2. Step #1: don’t feed it with more porn.

3. I was also sexually abused as a child at 9 years old by my oldest brothers best friend right before we moved. I was trapped in a basement while he made me undress and my body responded and I got hard and felt pleasure while it happened. Returned and he had me pee in his mouth during oral while hard. We moved to another state and the first mature woman I saw who was welcoming our family to the new town and dad to the new clinic where he was going to practice had really big breasts. After the 16 year old guy who abused me in a homosexual manner, seeing a mature hyperfeminine woman who was kind, sexy, with very large breasts has made me into a large breasts fetishist. Took 30 years and for my wife, who only has D cups, to ask when did I get into and start being into huge breasts and identified it with that time. There is so much about my life that was changed by being sexually abused as a child, but the biggest is still the large breast fixation. Cheat on wife with woman with big breasts, occasionally hire escorts who have the largest breasts can find, spend money on huge breasts cam sites, think of the other women have been with who had the really big breasts while with wife so I can orgasm. Even though I know where and why this sexual fixation started, not sure how or even if I want it to stop. If wife catches me cheating she will leave me. I know it is possibly destructive to a 22 year relationship but, women with really large breasts, skinny or heavy, ugly or pretty, make me orgasm so hard see the fireworks and can go again and again and again.