30s M happily married. If my wife ever asks about porn, I always feel uncomfortable and say I don’t anymore because I feel like she’d think it’s cheating in a way. I personally don’t think that and would really like to get her to watch with me sometimes. I think it would take our sex life to a new level. How do I approach this with her? Any advise? Thanks!

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  1. Well, first, just tell her you watch porn. Better than “being caught”. But just tell her you think it would be hot. My wife and I save things we come across to watch together sometimes. Fun to see what the other person likes and also save things you know they will too.

  2. First of all this is one of the worst things you can do, to lie to your wife about not watching porn. It is cheating in a way as you are lying.

    Anyway, you should be able to have this kind of conversation with your wife. Explain her what and why you want to watch it with her. Maybe she can surprise you and be actually open to the idea.

  3. By the way there’s going to be a massive chance you guys don’t like the same porn! some women look for other things in porn than men do. My EX liked gay porn because to her it was more masculine.

  4. It can be super hot. However, I see an issue if you don’t dare to be honest about your sexuality to your partner. If you watch porn together it’s not enjoyable if you’re worried the whole time how much you can reveal to your partner. How would you tell your partner which porn you like if you’ve told her before you don’t watch any?

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