(18yo male)I was at a club at the weekend and we all got a coach up (everyone in the coach was going) this girl I never met was sitting behind me and we both started talking and turned into a lot of laughing banter and good talk. She gave me a nickname and when we got off the bus she linked arms with me on the way to the club. When we got there I kinda went my way with a few mates and got drinks and for the next hour ppl were saying she was looking for me. I found her eventually and we started dancing and all. But from there she seemed to care a bit less. Idk if it is because I didn’t make any moves onto here or anything to make this go any further. And the rest of the club I kinda went my own way and met her back at the coach where we were talking again and I got her snap and she is leaving me on delivered a while but still responds and she is definitely online when she isn’t responding. Her friend told me the next day that I left her alone(jokingly) at the club dancing and stuff but it’s because I thought she wasn’t into me as much all of a sudden. I really like this girl and am a bit confused on what to do. Sorry for this being so long and would appreciate help if I done anything wrong or what but would love some advice. Thanks
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Ask her out, these “does he/she like me” posts are always ambiguous where the only way To answer the question you want answered is to directly shoot.
To answer your question…I don’t know.! I’d ask her directly and her response will tell me what I need to know
The only advice I can give you to ask her out.
Don’t do it online.
Make plans.
yup ask her out don’t beat around the bush she either likes you or doesn’t. just go find out.
to answer your question on does she like you, yes. she wouldn’t have been talking/ dancing with you if she didn’t. If she liked you for fun that night or sees something in you, you’ll never know unless you ask her. Just ask her.
I was this oblivious when I was your age too, and I wish I wasn’t. YES ASK HER OUT