Okay I have to start saying that my background sexual experience is not that great. I’ve had sex with three guys and only one time I really enjoying both the experience and the company. For this reason I feel like everything in the sexual field is always quitr new to me.
A week ago or so I met this really nice guy, we hit it off immediately and a few days later I spend the night at his place. Everything is great, but when it comes to sex we cannot do it, because I was hurting. He was really great and understood the situation, so we just stopped and slept. Since the first time we have tried again a few times, but it keeps on hurting me, so he just uses his fingers with me.
Now the thing is that I really don’t what to do for him. I have tried touching him, but it felt a bit unnatural for both of us. I would love to go down on him and give him pleasure, but he is really huge and I don’t love blowjobs so I have been scared to try it out.
I really don’t know what to do. I really like him and I feel like he likes me to, because he has been sticking around even though we still haven’t had proper sex, but I don’t like this situation. I wish I could do something for him or even something to fix the “hurting” situation.
Anybody has any suggestions/ideas/advices? I am quite a awkward person and don’t like to talk about my intimate problems with my friends.