me (M18) and my gf (F18) have been together for 10 months and she’s had another ex and they were together for 2 months. And I don’t like or idk what the feeling is that like I kinda feel sorta jealous, that she’s been with another guy and they’ve done stuff before me and that I always think of her with that guy and think about her when she was with the other guy, I need help i don’t know what to do or how to deal with this feeling it’s sorta mad and jealous , I don’t really know , what do I do?
tl:dr, I need help with this feeling on my relationship
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You don’t own her or her body, you guys are super young and chances are she’ll be with other guys after you (and you’ll be with other girls).
You’ve been with her for 5 times as long as she was with the other guy, try to stop being insecure and possessive.
Hey, this feeling is normal but says more about your insecurities than her feelings. People stay with each other because their life fits someone elses, so if her is with you now anything that heppened before can change how she feels about u. You should try take a look at your self steem, it would help a Lot. Try to do a little night routine, It sounds silly, but helps a Lot.
Deal with it like a man and know your place.
Respect her because she’s her own person