I’m not all that healthy of an individual. I have IBS-D – almost to the point of having Crohn’s disease. It’s reasonably easy for me to get sick if others around me have a cold or the flu. I’m under a LOT of stress due to my living situation to the point that I really don’t want to discuss it – and if I were to move, circumstances would be worse, which also doesn’t help my situation.
Because of this it’s REALLY difficult for me to plan in advance. It’s not that I want to cancel my plans, it’s just that I don’t have any choice in the matter.
So, what would you do if you’re told by friends “oh, I do XYZ, and I’m healthy” thus implying that if you do the same, you’d have no excuse?