And each time it hurts. He’s so big and when we are about to get in the act I truly have to brace myself for the pain. Then while we are doing it. I’m literally hoping it’s over soon…Don’t get me wrong I WANT to have sex but when is it supposed to start to feel good? Is it because of his size?

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  1. We’re you a virgin before him? Do you have experience with penetration prior to this? Are you properly turn on and wet or using enough lube?

  2. Presume you have tried lube and TONS of foreplay to make sure that you are “warmed up” before you get to penetration. Also have a look at r/bigdickproblems for additional advice.

  3. Talk to him to take it slower! Read up on positions for well-endowed men. Use lube. Take it slow. Communicate, communicate communicate. Also maybe take it slow.

  4. Pasting my response from a similar question that seemed to be well received by people as good advice. This is mostly to deal with girth. If the length is an issue, there’s only so much you can do. Asking him to try to not go as deep, using your hands as a bit of a barrier to prevent him from going all the way in. There are products you can buy that go around his dick to do the same thing but hands free. Other response is below:

    I’ve had my size be an issue for girls before. I would recommend you just be up front and vocal about it. “I’ve never been with a man your size and I need you to go really slow with me.” Tell him exactly what kind of foreplay you want. Oral, fingers, whatever you like. I’ve always found it helpful to start with one, work our way to two and go from there. Some girls need more to prepare others not as much. Tell him what you need and do it as long as you feel necessary. Use a toy that’s bigger than his fingers but not as big a him. Get him to use that on you or watch you do it yourself.

    You be in control when he’s penetrating for the first time. He can’t tell if it hurts you besides your body language, expressions and words. So if it hurts, tell him to wait. Take a few seconds to adjust and try a little more. Just because he gets it all the way in doesn’t mean he should start pounding. Just keep being vocal that you want him to give it to you slow.

    With a warm up and a slow build, it doesnt have to hurt. Use your voice!

  5. For length problem you get get an oh nut ring.. girth is about foreplay and lube. He should go slow until sufficient lubrication happens.

  6. your body isn’t sexually compatible with his

    the best sex of your life can possibly come from a smaller penis

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