Long story short, I got feelings for a female friend that I thought I wouldn’t catch feelings for but unfortunately it happened. Made so many posts and scenarios where if I confessed I would ruin everything. 2-3 months later i finally told her, she feels the same way “supposedly” then 2 days later thought it would be better if we were friends. Cool okay understandable, yes it sucks but can’t do anything about it. Huge update, after 2 1/2 weeks of feeling the most worst I’ve ever been right after the “break up” to then telling myself “It’s okay it’s no one’s fault, just be glad you 2 are still friends and you were able to tell her.” As well as some other things that kinda made me feel more upset. I’m doing way better though since I’ve recently went on a trip to NY to visit family, and wasn’t on my phone as much and it helped. She’s also been distant and now I feel like she kinda hates me. Idk but not my problem anymore I’m moving on so that’s it, I know my worth 💪.
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I had this happen to me too. Was friends with this girl for a year and decided to see maybe where things go. I caught the hardest feelings I’ve ever felt over someone and it didn’t end so well I kept taking friend’s advice because I’m so inexperienced when it comes to women. Went 3 months with very and I mean very little contact. She dated another guy and ended it and has tried to be friends again. I want to be friends and she knows exactly how I feel but nothing is returned. I feel so lost and don’t know if I should just delete her out my life or keep the friendship and use it to learn and maybe she could help me with the next.