I posted it in another subreddit and didn’t get many responses, so I would like to ask you all as well.
About a year ago I met this really awesome guy, super handsome, we were both after breakups so it wasn’t anything serious.
Idk, something about him makes me think about him a lot, even when I got back with my ex.
However, back then he was interested in his friend and politely said we need to stop this, and shortly after I got back with my ex.
Anyway, fast forward to September, i decided to gain courage and ask him how things went with that friend, he said that it didn’t go as planned and they decided to stay friends.
Soon after we started chatting quite frequently, we were both in different countries for the sem break so we only texted and well, sexted quite a bit.
It was super nice.
However, I find him super interesting, and I enjoy our regular talks too.
After we both came back, I tried to ask if he wanted to meet spontaneously(at my place or his), but he was always a little busy, so I thought he wasn’t interested.
Until one day he replied to my story with the fire emoji (classic, I know)
So we continued chatting a bit more. (Just normal chat about gaming and all lol)
A few days ago I gained the courage to ask him out to a bar with me. I said something like “would you be down to go to a bar together sometime?” And he replied saying yes ma’am
I asked him when he’s free and then he sent a pic and deleted, then did it again, then proceeded to text telling me next week would be great, with a kissy emoji. I pretty much wrapped up our convo but he kept texting so I went along, until I just decided to keep it cool and give a like to the message and that’s it.
Then, he started liking my Instagram photos.
I haven’t texted him since then but I can’t stop thinking about him.
Should I keep the convo going? It’s always me who initiates that, I feel like if he were interested he would’ve started convos himself. However his replies are always genuine and sweet.
Anyways I’m probably being stupid, and there’s no way I can get out of the hookup zone, right?
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Why go back to your ex if you have feelings for somebody else? 🤨
You’re already on your way to getting out of the hookup zone if you guys start doing something outside of sex.
Sounds like he likes talking to you too.
When you’re out, in a light way you could mention it could be nice to date him. And see how the conversation evolves from there.