Hello! Whenever I start a conversation with the girl I like, it feels so awkward and the conversation never really sets off for some reason.
I don’t know… It doesn’t feel the same when I talk to other girls in my class. I feel like I have a better connection or spark when talking to them. I don’t know… Any advice, please?
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The awkwardness is in your head, which feeds into the conversation, which then makes it awkward irl, and then constant feedback loop.
You need a buffer. Bring a friend with you so that you can speak as a threesome. He/she can take pressure off you and divert any awkwardness away.
If you’re worried about not being alone with her, you need to establish yourself within her presence first, and it’s hard enough to do without shooting yourself in the foot.